My Fi isn't really into wedding planning. If its meeting venders or tasting food yes, but he couldn't care less about decor, favors ect. So I have been relying on my mom to help me with decisions. I am very close with my mom and since my MOH is in another state, and my other BM is busy with her own wedding plans, its alot of help. My mom has started talking to her family about the wedding plans. I guess they are really excited about it because:
1- I come from a very rural area, and most people don't have big weddings.
2- Noone else in my family will probably get married for a long time.
So they have been getting really pushy with my wedding plans. So far I have heard:
1- "I don't like this neutral color thing, weddings are supposed to be bright"
2- "You really should wear pearls, I just think it would look better." Right after I said I wanted very minimal jewelry.
3- "you should use my friend for ___________"
4- "the guys are going to wear tennis shoes??"
Its OUR wedding! We are both very laid back people, and I am trying to incorporate our personalities into the wedding, because I fell in love with a guy who wears adidas, and he fell in love with a girl who doesn't wear much jewelry. I don't want to pretend to be other people on the day that we are celebrating our love! ugghhhhh
sorry for the vent