does anyone get the "wow you get married and are too busy to call " crap.
i am adjusting to being a mrs, plus going back to work. i have a relative whom i was very close to many years ago. however, her feelings toward somethings have pushed us apart some. i make effort to keep in contact and be respectful, but life being busy i dont always get time to make a call and check in. i dont really get them from this person like i did.
well i spoke to this person a month ago..they called. and i get the Oooo you are so busy now.. where have you been.. oohh it must to so hard crap. i just go along with it because i get upset and makes the "pushing apart" feeling worse. when i do call, i feeel like im bothering this person. so i call today after that last call and i get the "ooo you are now back at work..it must be such a hard life" i respond the same and now im upset. does anyone get crap like this? this person is the only person i get it from. i want to say something so bad but dont kow what. i have in the past and it doesnt get me anywhere. but this is why i dont want to call in the first place