My MOH has generously offered to throw me whatever kind of bridal shower I want, but there are a couple of problems. The biggest is that all family members on both sides live several hours away from where the shower would be (we're having the wedding at a more central location), so there's little chance even my mom could attend, much less my aunts, cousins, etc. Some friends live closer, very few of them are female (4 or 5 that could make it) and my best friends are all guys. If we had a co-ed shower the guest list might make it to 15, but my FH doesn't have much interest in attending a shower. The other problem isn't really a problem, but since my FH and I have lived on our own for many years there are very few gifts we need or want. We already have two of practically everything, so I definitely don't Need to have a shower. I wouldn't mind a lingerie shower, but does is it qualify as a shower if there are only ~5 attending. Should I tell her to skip it and we can just go out to a nice dinner or something? This seems like such a trivial problem, but I just wonder if there are any other good ideas I'm missing.Thanks!