I wanted to get an idea if people are generally doing the birchot hamazon and sheva brochot after the meal or not. FI has been to a lot of Jewish weddings and says he's only seen that at Orthodox weddings. We're Conservative and the Rabbi's pushing this and we're not super keen on the idea.
Please give me some insight so we can discuss with our Rabbi! Thx!
Also, if you did a handwashing station where did you have it? At the entrance to the room, with the challah and wine, somewhere else?