so i know im not moderater here but ..
since ive started lurking around the community... in many threads that ive seen a lot of brides have gone on the defence in threads they have made ... this is not an isolated occurance ive seen it a few times so obviously they are feeling attacked and then of course it ends up in a big mess which is unnessesary. there should be a different approach to the way some woman are giving their advise.
you all have your opinions which is great but there is no need to be catty about it right?
we are talking about etiquette here so lets practice what we preach and be polite
quoting from the rules of the customs and traditions board which i think ties in a lot with this one....
"This is a supportive group of brides who are mindful that this is an international forum where brides (and possibly grooms) from all over the world will post with questions and answers. It is helpful to keep the perspective that while, a tradition or custom, such as a "Jack and Jill" party or a "dollar dance", aren't done "in your circle", there are plenty of areas in which those traditions are popular and accepted as the norm."
edit: oh and same goes for the thread makers too! no need to get upset because someone disagrees with what you want to do just take it into account, you asked for the opinion . if someone is snarky ... best thing to do is ignore !