Not sure the best solution to working around this....help!!
My FI and I are both in the Navy and we are stationed onboard the same ship. One of us has to leave the ship, since we cannot be in the same command. Because of our jobs (we have the same job) we have to have sea time before we can go to a shore command, so we both have to be on a ship. Our chief told us we probably will not find out who is leaving and where that person will be going until probably a few months before we are supposed to get marriend (sept 10, 2011). And since the amount of carriers is slim, we might be in two different states. We know the schedule of the ship we are on now and that we will be able to have our wedding any day we want in that year, but we won't know about the other ship for awhile. I'm afraid of us planning everything and paying for everything just to find out one of us will be out to sea. What should we do?