My fiance and I both have rather strained relationships with our fathers. And awesome relationships with our mothers. My father and I speak about once a year for the past 9 years and the only times I've seen him in that time have been purely accidental. We are inviting both of our fathers to the wedding, but my cousin or uncle will be walking me down the aisle.
I will not be dancing with my father, no ifs ands or buts. But I'm having a hard time figuring out how to handle his mother- I absolutely in no way want to take that dance away from her. I know that if we asked her, she would tell us its no big deal, she is WONDERFUL. But I'd really like them to have that moment. Any suggestions on how to handle this? We've just barely begun planning but this idea is driving me crazy.
PS this is my first post, I'll get all the abbreviations down someday!