Anyone still read this blog?

ricksang · June 2010

http://www.doughmesstic.net/2010/03/28/empty-crowded-house/

It's so crazy/sad

bel138 · June 2010

I never emailed her for the new password because I figured she wouldn't give it to me. I never posted comments or anything, so I'm just some weirdo creepin on her posts.

ricksang · June 2010

password- Dobler

bel138 · June 2010

She started a new section because she didn't like calling all her new shiny happy posts about hope "Betrayal." She changed the password on that section and said you'd have to email her for it.

ricksang · June 2010

Oh maybe I am reading olds ones then. I won't email her though. I'd feel weird about that lol!

kkchisholm · June 2010

For the second section mending the password is "cusack"

I don't know how she's doing it.

ricksang · June 2010

Thanks KK , you are an Angel! I feel so bad for her.

kkchisholm · June 2010

I know me too. I feel like one of the main reasons she is staying is because she doesn't want the other woman to get him... which is so so so sad. I hate the other woman, and I hate her husband.

kkchisholm · June 2010

Her cooking blog is pretty amazing too!

Nebb · June 2010

Please give a quick synopsis of what is going on please and thank you? (I know how her husband was fuucking another woman in his truck and all that)

klreese0213 · June 2010

i added her to facebook. i'm nosey like that. i thought it was so sad, so hurtful.. but everyother status on her facebook is how much she loves him, and how much she cant wait for him to be home. its a little odd if you ask me.
i fully support her working on her marriage. but her facebook status always make it seem like everything is so peachy.
ive emailed her a few times. she is very nice. we've chatted about cakes. i would never say anything about her husband. her cakes are amazing and insanely cheap! she's a great decorator.

bel138 · June 2010

OOhh thanks for the new password!

ricksang · June 2010

I only know as much as you Nebb. She has decided to stay with him but it's pretty pathetic. Like KK said, she's keeping him around so the other woman won't sleep with him.

ricksang · June 2010

Her cakes are amazing. I think she could totally be on her own. She's quite beautiful too, and it's sad her H has made her feel the opposite way.

klreese0213 · June 2010

i totally agree ricksang.
it wasn't like he cheated once and confessed and go therapy. (although that still wouldnt be ok)
but he cheated for like 4 months!!! and he didnt confess! the mistress's husband called her! she caught him THEN he confessed!!

kkchisholm · June 2010

Nebb you should read it. It seems like a lot but it keeps you reading.

The husband and whore had a song together. A song! That involved. I couldn't imagine ever sleeping with him again. ever.

AmoroAgain · June 2010

I'm sorry, but a month after you found out your husband was fucking another woman, in his truck, and at times that were supposed to be important to you, and you take him back with zero punishment? Not even a separation? And now you're having sex with him? Grody. Sorry, but I don't share.

I agree that she's holding on to him just to spite the other woman. I was reading her posts all the time, but she made me really angry with the way she was justifying his behavior "It's all my fault" and all that shiit.

If someone loves you, they don't break you like that. Plain and simple.

klreese0213 · June 2010

She definitely blaming her self.. saying "i should have done..."(this and that).. hello he's a grown man, he voluntarily spent money on hotel rooms with her!
its very sad. she needs to grow a back bone!
the only "seperation" i read about was a week awake, him sleeping in the guest room. you better believe my husband's sh!t would be on the front lawn!! lol

kkchisholm · June 2010

AND they were living paycheck to paycheck and he took trips to stay in a hotel to have sex with another woman, he barely knew.

AND you know what makes me MORE mad, is that they didn't even see each other day! They hadn't seen each other in like 15 years... they just got reconnected on facebook and then randomly decided to hook up. what.the.hell

And I don't understand how she took a 4 day tip to another frigging state a month later. She really already trusts him that easy, even though the whore is calling/texting DAILY?

It makes me angry.

kkchisholm · June 2010

Haha so Nebb-there is your summary.

Nebb · June 2010

No one MAKES their partner cheat. Sure there might have been neglect or behavior on her part that put strain on the relationship, but it was entirely his fault to hop into bed with another woman. The fact that she would take the blame and place it entirely on herself is kind of messed up, and just seems desperate.

I would rather be alone, than stay with a man who didnt love me enough to not have a relationship with another woman while still married to me.

klreese0213 · June 2010

i doubt they live pay check to pay check! on her fb she adds pictures of their house, and mentions about going "to the country club" and literally plays golf a few times a week. maybe money is tight but i DOUBT they are living like lower class citizens with no money!!

ricksang · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_anyone-still-read-this-blog?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:c2de30a0-8edc-4d10-9dff-7a052787941dPost:493cd30a-381e-4628-a337-0025bfaedb6e">Re: Anyone still read this blog?</a>:
[QUOTE]i totally agree ricksang. it wasn't like he cheated once and confessed and go therapy. (although that still wouldnt be ok) but he cheated for like 4 months!!! and he didnt confess! the mistress's husband called her! she caught him THEN he confessed!!
Posted by klreese0213[/QUOTE]

It's so terrible.

kkchisholm · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_anyone-still-read-this-blog?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:c2de30a0-8edc-4d10-9dff-7a052787941dPost:b869bcad-ec14-4511-b5b5-85339f0b4710">Re: Anyone still read this blog?</a>:
[QUOTE]i doubt they live pay check to pay check! on her fb she adds pictures of their house, and mentions about going "to the country club" and literally plays golf a few times a week. maybe money is tight but i DOUBT they are living like lower class citizens with no money!!
Posted by klreese0213[/QUOTE]

you can be rich and still living paycheck to paycheck. but I see what you mean, they clearly arent living below their means.

ricksang · June 2010

Oh and the thing that pissed me off most, he used HER hard earned cake money to cheat. BYE BYE FUCKER!

It would be like me cheatting on my H while I was away at school. So heartless.

klreese0213 · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_anyone-still-read-this-blog?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:c2de30a0-8edc-4d10-9dff-7a052787941dPost:7b917138-ae79-4fff-b773-62e05a732bc2">Re: Anyone still read this blog?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Anyone still read this blog? : you can be rich and still living paycheck to paycheck. but I see what you mean, they clearly arent living below their means.
Posted by kkchisholm[/QUOTE]

right this is what i meant. not that they're broke.. but you wouldnt be taking trips if money was tight.

bel138 · June 2010

I'm now reading the "Mending" section. If you have to TELL your husband to call his mistress and ask her to stop emailing him, there is still a huge problem. She's all happy that he told her about the emails, but a man who really loves you already would have told the mistress to knock it the fuuck off or he would file harassment charges.

kkchisholm · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_anyone-still-read-this-blog?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:c2de30a0-8edc-4d10-9dff-7a052787941dPost:4227c4c1-d579-43d7-85e5-85783cf9bcf2">Re: Anyone still read this blog?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Anyone still read this blog? : right this is what i meant. not that they're broke.. but you wouldnt be taking trips if money was tight.
Posted by klreese0213[/QUOTE]

ha good point! okay off to enjoy the day!

AmoroAgain · June 2010

Huh. I was definitely getting the impression that they were poor. Interesting that they aren't.

I made a comment on her post once telling her that he was going to cheat again because she had to beg him to fess up and he didn't tell her on his own, etc.

She deleted it.

ricksang · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_anyone-still-read-this-blog?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:c2de30a0-8edc-4d10-9dff-7a052787941dPost:a293d023-03e6-42af-a85b-363bb12730d8">Re: Anyone still read this blog?</a>:
[QUOTE]I'm now reading the "Mending" section. If you have to TELL your husband to call his mistress and ask her to stop emailing him, there is still a huge problem. She's all happy that he told her about the emails, but a man who really loves you already would have told the mistress to knock it the fuuck off or he would file harassment charges.
Posted by bel138[/QUOTE]

I agree. Of course a real man would not cheat the way he did!

ricksang · June 2010

I remember that Amoro!

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