I am not sure what to do about my MOH.
My sister and I are very close, and I would love her to be my MOH, the only problem is that she is only 17 and she hates giving speeches. That means that not only will my mother probably not allow her to come to my bachelorette party (my parents are strict) but she will be incredibly nervous about giving a speech at the wedding.
My best friend, on the other hand, is my age (25) and is an actress. She loves attention/speeches.
I know it is my wedding and I can really do whatever I want, but do you think either of them will feel slighted if I ask my sister to be my MOH and my best friend to be a BM, and to help me plan the bachelorette party/give a speech at my wedding?