Hello, I just got engaged. This is going to be both of our second weddings. Combined we have 5 children who are going to make up our wedding party. We want to have the wedding at the resort we got engaged at (aprox 2 hrs away) We also want to keep it relatively cheap. So I was thinking an early afternoon wedding with an ipod for music. We are not going to do the parents dance first dance or any of that so i wasnt getting a dj. well have the ceremony then eat . I also want to pass the word around that in leu of gifts we would want everyone to try to rent a room and spend the evening dancing and hanging out in the resort tavern. So my questions what are afternoon receptions like? what can i do at the reception to make up for lack of entertainment? And is it bad etiquette to not provide entertainment but ask everyone to meet up later that night?? i know very untraditional any suggestions and feedback will help!