I got engaged to my highschool sweetheart back in August. We broke up 22 years ago, but remained friends through each of us getting married and me having two children. We had only been back together a few months before deciding to move in together and were engaged about 7 weeks after that. My issue is that my sister, who is one of my best friends and my favorite cousin both have been very upset by my getting married. The two of them have been going around town telling all sorts of lies about me and causing other friends and family members to do the same without talking to me about whats really going on. I have stopped talking to my cousin altogether, and now my sister is making me want to do the same with her. She came to my shower an hour and 45 minutes late and was rude to my maid of honor and several guest and spent a half an hour talking about the cruise she just came back from. So my question is this, I love my sister, but I am tired of the garbage that she is putting out there and after 4 months of trying to get to the bottom of this I'm ready to cut her off too. Am I being too extreme or should I try one last time to talk to her about what the problem may be? Any help out there?