So im friends with all my co workers, were not like OMG BFF4LYFE (sorry haha) types. but were friends. I dont have much going on right now, kinda just living, working and wedding planning (not many, if really any friends out here since i moved after college grad since FI is finishing his masters in april, yay!) So I talk about our wedding with them.. I learned this is a huge mistake.. esp since we're getting married in San Diego, living in Sacramento. They want to come and I have no problem inviting them, its just I dont feel like any would make the trip, some are quitting and a few are really starting to bother me with questions about everything! So my problem/ question is:
Do i Invite them even if im almost certain they wont make the trip (i only have about 95 invites and recently found out people over 18 get their own so its going to be a stretch)
Would I have to invite them with a plus one if one is having marital issues, ones BF ive never met (but heard he is a creep) etc..
Help