I'm torn between having a big wedding vs just having a "Vegas" wedding. I'm not loving either idea... but to be honest, I'm not loving any other ideas either. I'm to the point right now that I don't want to have one and wish I had done the other... My fiance wan'ts just a small one, him and I with our parents on a beach. My mom wants me to have the "wedding" I always wanted... But I was never one of those little girls who had a dream wedding....