I am currently enagaged and planning my wedding. But, I can't set a date yet because my future mother in law needs to choose the right day on the Chinese calendar. She doesn't have the 2011 calendar (probably because it hasn't been printed yet) but I was wondering if there was anywhere I could buy the calendar? If it's not printed anywhere yet, what month would it usually come out? I can't possibly have to wait until around October do I? I am planning to have it in March. How can I set things with the reception hall and catering and cake if I can't even choose a date? I mean, I'm all for getting the right day, but I feel so disconnected from choosing my own date for the wedding. Has anyone else gone through this? Help!