It might be somewhat strange asking this question but My FI and I really don't want to do our first dance. we do have a DJ and there is a dance floor and we certainly don't mind dancing with other people to few love songs if we find the time....but I really am not into that whole idea of announcing the first dance and people just looking at TWO of us as we pretend to know how to dance and on our faces, probably show how much we can't wait for the song to end.....All of us at the wedding of 80 people are asian americans and it's somewhat awkward for all of us. The parents don't want to dance either and I want them to enjoy their time, not worry about a dance at the wedding. JUST WANT some opinions out there!!!!