My FIL's threw this really expensive rehearsal dinner for FI's brother about a year ago. Both FI and I have said that we don't want that. We would rather go back to someones house or go to a relaxed restaurant with tv's, wings, beer, and pizza.
FFIL said if we want to have a cheaper RD and pocket the rest of the cash(which we would use on the wedding) we are welcome to do so.
Would you think it is tacky if we had a pizza party and bought everyone a few beers? Our WP is very relaxed and honestly we are having a big party the next night! I would rather be able to just hang out the night before. Having the cheaper RD will allow us to invite out of towners as well...so a plus to having the pizza party.
What do you think?
Warning
No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml