My boyfriend of three years proposed to me on July 4th and since then I've been soo excited. I started planning to have the wedding next year; I couldn't wait. It wasn't until the next week he told me that he was being deployed overseas all next year. Nervous and lost, I don't know what to do. I have friends and family members telling me to get married in two months, but I am a college student with no money and he has only been in the Army for six months, so he is not making a lot of money either. Besides that , we agreed to wait until September 2012 to get married. People think we're crazy to wait that long because of the welfare of my fiance, but we are not comfortable with rushing to get married. Are crazy? Is it more "secure" to get married soon, before he leaves?