After hearing awful stories, I never thought I would be in this position. My MOH and one out of 2 of my bridesmaids have been there through everything with me, for over 10 years. So, without question I asked them to be in my bridal party. With only 53 days until my wedding they haven't done anything. I asked them to set up appointments for their dresses (and offered to go with them)... they said they wold and never did.
In January they asked my mom for help throwing my bridal shower and then ignored any types of contact my mom tried to have from there on with them and I ended up never having a bridal shower.
When I ask them questions or opinions about certain things in the wedding- they don't answer. And my bachelorette party is this weekend (My second bridesmaid had planned all by herself, because they ignored all her calls about it) and the other 2 said they wouldn't be home from the beach in time to make it. What do I do?? I love them, but they're really hurting my feelings.