So I kinda wanted to get people's opinion on this... my wedding was awhile ago, so here's the background.
Groomsman is a mutual friend from college, a friend for many years. The rest of the BP, our friends/guests from college all know him. He kept blowing off getting his tux--he's a guy, guys are lazy. But then tells us he took care of it and went to the store. We visited him a few times to see his band, (he's about 2 hours away), and we can't think of any reason for something to be wrong.
I get a call from Mens' Warehouse--they're still waiting on him for our order(this is 3 weeks before the wedding), so we're trying to get a hold of him to clear it up. He's not returning phone calls. The Best man and other people who know him try to get ahold of him, he's not responding to ANYONE. We said we'd still like for him to be there, just please call us back. Eventually we gave up.
We go on facebook, and there's photos and status' about golfing and drinking with his band buddies...surprise, on the same day as the wedding. Everyone was asking where he was, and we said we didn't know. He looked like an ass in a lot of people's eyes. DH was very hurt because this was supposed to be a close friend of his. He completely blew us off. So we've written him off and moved on. He doesn't talk to anyone in our group of friends, so none of us have heard from him.
DH and I both got a text from him this week, and he wants to know "where the @#$@ have we been? and why we haven't tried to get in touch with him" in the past six months.
Am I miss something here? He backed outta our wedding out of the blue, couldn't even acknowledge our attempts to contact him, and we're the bad guy?