So I've known for years before I met fiance that I would not change my last name, and he's 100% ok with this (hence why he's the one), but I never thought about how I would address that to everyone else. I haven't announced it, but when peopel ask I tell them. But I'm not sure how this should be handled. If you are keeping your name, how are you handling this? Also, if you got some nasty feedback about this, how did you respond? I've gotten a little bit of nasty feedback from people who think they have a say in this (why do they think that??)!