Has anyone out there planned a couple's shower? I am not a traditional bride, so did not want a typical shower, and decided to go the couple's shower route.
I'm just curious as to how it was layed out and how you went about it. Were the groomsmen just as involved with the planning and execution of it as the bridesmaids were? Is it ok to expect them to be?
We want to do just a simple barbeque/corn roast type event in his parents giant back yard and patio. Lawn games, keg of beer, some good corn and meat on the grill, other side dishes, some good music and some good friends.
How did you decide who did what? Who contributed what, etc? I know for a bridal shower, the bridesmaids typically handle everything but I'm assuming this is different. Help!!