So today I received a letter in the mail from my bank with a check that was returned for insufficient funds, so the amount of the check plus a fee was taken from our account. What is the best way to address this? We did wait a bit to cash checks b/c we misplaced them. Help please. I feel bad for them and don't want them to be too embarrassed, but the money is already spentwe are going on a trip with our church so it was already donated