A while back my FMIL told me she wanted to throw a shower i accepted . Yesterday , she told one of my BM to contact the others to ask for $150 each for the shower. Only 3 of my bm live in town the other two will have to travel and are going through life issue's i think its wrong to call and say you know that shower you won't be attending well its going to cost your $150. Also, Since she asked me i assued she was paying for it not planning with the pockets of others.
Help tell me how to handle this and remember i am not supposed to know this my BM just happend to inform me .