I'm going to go ahead an throw this out there...THIS IS THE BEST BOARD! I know it's not the busiest The Knot has to offer but good grief there are some real witches on the other boards. They say they're being honest, and there is nothing wrong with honesty, but there is something wrong with being absolutely rude and not choosing words wisely. I truly appreciate everyones kindness and honesty here. You ladies are absolutely GREAT!! Thank you!!