We are currently deciding on our wedding party. My finance has three GM and I have three BM and one best friend that is male. My fiance is not comfortable with my male friend standing next to me but has agreed to have him as a GM putting him at four and me at three. This would be fine but I have two other good friends both of which I think would be upset not being in the wedding party if the other good friend is. I don't know what to do any suggestions?