I'm kind of curious as to what others think about this. My friend is engaged, but not planning on getting married any time soon. She is looking to buy a home and says that she won't be able to afford a nice wedding any time soon. She and her fiance do not want to JOP it.
So, now she told me she is pregnant and that the pregnancy was planned. I don't know why, but I find this decision odd. Of course I respect her and I'm happy for her. It just seems kind of strange to "do things backward". I guess in some ways, marriage isn't going to change their situation much. Still, I don't get it. Maybe I'm old fashioned. Thoughts?
P.S. I hope I'm not coming across as judgmental bitch. I strongly feel that people should do whatever they feel is best for them.