Hello All!
I figured this would be the best discussion board to post my query. Let me preface this by saying I am not about to gripe and moan on about how one of my bridesmaid isn't nearly as excited for me, so I am going to pout abou itt - - that is not me at all! I understand how no one except my FI and I are as excited about the Big Day as we are! I am just wanting some helpful advice on how to handle a recent situation.
I have a bridesmaid who has been a longtime friend of mine and although we live in different cities, we are still very close and keep in good touch, just as I do with my other Bridesmaids. Recently, we were thrown a shower by my cousin and my sister and it was an entertainment shower and she was calling or texting me almost daily saying how excited she was, asking what I was wearing, etc... She and I had talked and she had booked a hotel room in the city, was asking directions to the house where the shower would be and we were even talking about getting a drink the night before when she got in town with the rest of some of my friends who were attending the shower. When Friday night rolled around, she was suppose to call me when she got in town but I didn't hear anything. I didn't think much of it and assumed she got in late so I just sent her a text that said "hope you got in town okay - we look forward to seeing you tomorrow at the shower!"
So, long story short, she never showed up to the shower the next night. No biggie really - I just now started to get concerned - its not like her to not respond, we talk several times a week. I called her the next morning and left a message telling her I hope she was alright, etc... I then assumed she might have gotten sick or something.
Well, that has been over a week ago, and I still haven't heard from her at all. And I know she is okay (not sick, etc...) because she has been fairly active on facebook and has gone out with friends, posted pictures, etc. Please keep in mind she is a best friend of mine and unless there was a large fight that occured that I do not know about, I do not know why she wouldn't be answering me for going on two weeks now.
I am sure this scenario above is along the same lines of several posts on there and I am not going to be mad at her just because she didn't come to my shower. I really right now want to know whats going on with her and why she is suddenly MIA.
Any suggestions on how to handle this? TIA!