She's back! At our wedding on Saturday, my mother decided to use her speech time to complain about the changed venue and "missing" programs, and to offer her condolences to BM for the loss of her baby. We explicitly asked her not to turn our wedding into a memorial service, not because it's "all about us," but because the BM wanted a night to forget about her horrible past few months and I didn't want the whole bridal party, including my wife, to be crying in the bathroom over my mothers big fvcking mouth. Which was exactly what happened. After she finished the speech, the teary-eyed party all went to the bathroom to calm each other down and return as quickly as possible. Apparently my mother considered this rude and followed my wife in to scold her for being a bad host. My wife politely pointed out that my mom had it backwards and her toast was completely inappropriate. My mother left without saying anything to anyone. She did, however, take the time to grab her gift. I just... Ugh.