I find myself in a strange situation and would love to hear some other people's opinions. While my boyfriend and I were visiting my parents at the weekend, my bf asked my father for his blessing and told him he loves me very much. My father told my mother who then rang me the next day to tell me! As the proposal would have been a surprise I feel she has both robbed me of this and has disrespected my bf. Also I'm sure she has told all the family already. My bf and I are always very open with each other, i feel I'm almost lying to him by hiding my knowledge. The other side of me ecstatic, I'm madly in love with him and we've always talked of marraige/children. So do I play dumb and act surprised when it does happen? Or do I tell him? Also... I'm very annoyed with my mother. Even though i've told her this and that she's ruined a surprise she. doesn't care as she got to gossip the Tory first! If I get angry with her she'll get emotional and the she'll see herself as the victim. Any advice greatly appreciated? What would you do?