Couldn't decide if I should post this under etiquette but I'm wrestling with whether I should invite my future mother in law to go shopping for my wedding dress. My mom, sister grandmother are coming. My MIL is sweet but she makes me question myself a lot. When we were discussing the ring my fiance and i picked out she kept pointing out the negatives, asking if I really wanted that. Um, yeah we picked it out for a reason!
She doesn't mean to come off in a rude way she genuinely thinks she's helping but she just stresses me out sometimes. I want my dress shopping experience to be a happy experience. However, I feel that it will hurt her feelings if I don't ask her. I want this whole wedding to set the tone for our relationship and I want to respect her.
Should I invite her to go with us? Will it be a disaster? Help!!