Hi! I have been lurking for a few weeks now (engaged Feb. 5) but this is my first post and I am looking for some advice …
My fiance and I will be getting married at a Golf Club in the Philadelphia area – we attend church regularly so at first we assumed our ceremony would be there. Long story short, we are now doing everything at the Golf Club.
The club has a beautiful ballroom where we will do the reception, a small covered (heated) patio area and a larger open deck out the back of the ballroom. It would be somewhat long and narrow for 135-150 guests, but we want to look into what it would take to get married on the open deck – the covered area would be too small.
Are we crazy to consider an outdoor ceremony in December? It would be about a 15-20 ceremony, we would warn guests ahead of time and we would rent those portable outdoor heaters and providing coffee/hot chocolate for guests. The other consideration is that it is going to be a Friday wedding and it will get dark by 4:30 or so that day. The venue has done dark ceremonies on their small covered area, but never on the deck we’re looking at, so all of the lighting would basically be from scratch as well. We have the budget for both heaters and lighting – I am more afraid that all of our guests will hate us.
One more note – if we plan this way and it rains/is -40 degrees we can move inside with short notice.
Has anyone ever done anything like this?
Thanks for any advice!