Please excuse me if this doesn't come out right. I do not mean to offend.
FI is from a strong Catholic family and I am from a strong Mormon family. Both families were disappointed when we decided to not marry in the traditional way of our families faiths. When we explained that we just didnt have the strong convictions they were understanding. However now FI's grandmother is telling me that by not converting and by have a JOP/outside wedding I am ruining his religion. She is upset and says she still loves me but is coming to terms with his "loss"
I am trying to be sympathetic with her but I am not sure what she means and FI isn't really sure what she is going on about since he hasn't been an active Catholic in many many years. Can someone explain or give me some advice? Thank you so much in advance.