My fiance and I are having two ceremonies - one on August 15th at my home church and another on August 17 in a city two hours away. All are invited to both ceremonies. There will be a traditional reception after the August 17th wedding so we need RSVPs for that (which will include their entree selection). We're having a small, informal reception after the church wedding on the 15th which we will send out an evite for closer to that date so we'll need an RSVP for that one as well. How should we handle the invites? One just for the 17th wedding with an insert for the one on the 15th? What about the response card? Try and fit it all on one? I don't want our guests to be confused. We explain it all on the website so we'll include the link as part of the invitation packet.