So I know, only 18, but on the 9th, we'll have been together for 3 years. We just attended one of his distant cousin's wedding and that kinda sparked something inside him to start planning. We were engaged back in August and at this wedding, people have been asking us "When's the big day?" and I can't decide. I'm stressed, a little, because we want it to be soon but 1) we need to save up and 2) we'd like to be of legal drinking age (Though I doubt they'll say "No, you can't share in your own toast."). I have such a mix of styles that I don't know how to make it all work. We LOVE LOVE LOVE the idea of these riverboats they have down in Stillwater, MN. It's not as expensive as I thought it would be but we're not sure if that's the style we want. Sorry for the rambling, I guess I just would like some suggestions on where to start. Almost every website wants the date, and we don't know it. Help? Haha..