We are getting married at the MGM in Sept, and just having a ceremony, but no reception. This is due to the cost. We would be willing to go out to dinner with everyone who wants to (will probably be about 40-50 people in all), but a couple questions: (1) If we pick a restaurant to go eat at, and let anyone who wants to, join us, I want to make sure that everyone knows they are paying their own way. How do we do this without seeming cheap? (2) What restaurant would be a good choice to do this at? (3) Or should we just choose a bar/restaurant to all hang out at afterwards? If so, any suggestions for places that would be large enough for a group of this size?