I'm about a year out from my wedding and we're getting ready to order STD's. Having been a long time knottie, I've heard my fair share of "ZOMG we sent STD to EVERY ONE, do we HAVE to invite them now!?!?!?11/" horror stories. As a result only our family, (ie the people we could comfortable host in our back yard with cake and punch should the worst happen) are getting STDs.
So my question is, its ok to only send them to siblings, Grandparents, Aunts/Uncles, and Cousins and not our friends? Also, do adults who live at home still need their own STD (I know they get their own wedding invite) or is it ok to send it to 'The So&So Family'?
Normally I would have skipped the STD and just emailed our VIP's, but there are a few weddings coming up in the family this year and I wanted people to be able to plan...
Thanks in advance for the awesome advice!!