My fiancé is in the military, which means we're apart a lot of the time. When we had our engagement party, I wrote all the thank you cards, signed them, and had him sign them as well. It was all fine and dandy, and I honestly didn't mind it, but that was a lot of writing for me. Because the party was only a couple weeks before Christmas, I was still worn out from all the writing for the party, and so my Christmas cards suffered as a result.
Our wedding is in early January, and I'm trying to avoid creating this problem a second time. So my question is: should I have my fiancé write some thank you cards as well? This may seem like a "duh!" or "you think?!" question, but the reason I was so willing to do the engagement party cards by myself was because I knew he is only home for a very limited time each year, and I would rather spend as much time with my Sailor as possible before he has to go to the airport to go back to base.
We plan to have as little of the military as possible, and no paperwork (military comes with a lot!) or whatnot during the honeymoon, because with having to constantly be apart, we both just want to cherish every second together before we have to part yet again.
Thank you!
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As a side note... Please, PLEASE be respectful. I have posted a couple times before. Although I've had some that were short and sweet, my last two posts were complete disasters and I quickly lost control. Please be respectful to EVERYONE. Thank you.