I have to get this off my chest. My shower was last night, a mess. Lets begin with the fact that through the whole planning of the shower I was bombarded with calls from my friends complaining about each other, this person wasnt pulling her weight, they sick of each other, etc. My MOH (BFF for 10 years) did a piss poor job, I arrive to the shower and she is not there she made her grand entrance an hour after me- I hosted my shower, which I did a bad job because I didn't know what was going on my FI stay at the shower because he felt bad that my friends were not there my friend that cooked the food was the only one there trying to salvage the shower but she had to keep running back and forth to the kitchen, 2 of my guests help me open my gifts my MOH just sat on her ass and did nothing. I'm trying to let it go but I'm just shocked that my BFF did this to me- I don't know if I gave enough details- it's just something I don't want to remember.