My fiancé and i talked about having a small catholic ceremony early next year, his mother is currently ill and will likely not be at our wedding. If she does live that long, she may not be mentally there. We were talking about doing a catholic ceremony with just our parents and siblings early next year. We already have a venue and a date picked out, our bridal party has been picked out(which is mainly family). We knew it was a possibility his mom would not be at our wedding, but we never thought she would be going so quickly. Is it wrong of us to have a small ceremony now and then have a bigger celebration later in the year?