So I was talking to a friend of mine today who has been married for about 5 years. She asked me if I am worried that I will have a self-identity crisis or loss of who I am? I told her that I didn't think I would. After all, I will still be the same person as I am now. The only thing that will be changing is my last name and that I will be a wife. I like chocolate now and I am sure I will like chocolate after I am married. (Silly example I know) but the point is that I will still be the same person.
She said that she asked because it happened to her after she had been married for about 1 month and that it lasted for about 6 months and that she decided to get counseling to help her with it.
For those who are NOT yet married: Do you think you might go through something like that? If so, when do you think it might help?
For those who ARE married: Did you go through something like this? If so, how long after you were married did it come on? Did you get past it? If so, how long did it take? Did you do it on your own or get professional help? Do you have any advice for someone who might go through this?