Would it be poor etiquette/taste to have the Shower and the Bachelorette Party in the same weekend? My FMIL is hosting my shower in my hometown (where the wedding will be) 4 hours from where I, my BMs and friends live now. My MOH wants to throw my party in my hometown as well the same month as my shower. Would it be rude to my FMIL to have the shower at 11-12p, then relax and have the bachelorette party later that evening? I don't want to offend the FMIL.
Note: It's difficult for me and my WP to get weekends off as we work in hotels. My MOH and MIL want the parties on Saturdays though.