Hey everyone! I'm having an issue with my younger sister, who is also my MOH. Let me just start by saying that I'm 25 and my sister is 22...we've always been competitive and she's always felt kind of inferior to me (I know from her telling me, I'm not just being conceited, haha). But she's always been much more outgoing than me, and since she's been in college her confidence has sort of skyrocketed...a bit too much. She can be very manipulative in the way she sucks up to people, whereas I am more of a brutally honest person.
Anyway, last fall my fiance proposed to me after being together for 5 years, and I could tell my sister was a little miffed that she wouldn't get to have her wedding before mine, even though she's only been with her beau for two years. Despite that, she is still my sister and I asked her to be my MOH. She is also making our cake as a wedding present to us (she's in culinary school). But her need to be the center of attention just drives me up the wall. Any chance that she gets to show me up she takes, and I'm concerned and pretty positive that she will be like this at our wedding. She's already sort of tried to take over in deciding what the bridesmaid dresses will be. She threw a hissy fit when she found out that our first dance song is the same song that she considers her and her boyfriend's song...she started crying and hung up the phone with me. I told her that should they get married, I'm perfectly fine with them using the same song, because it has a different meaning to both couples. But she refused saying that she wouldn't use it because she didn't get to first and all she would be able to think about is me and my husband dancing to it. It's getting to the point that I'm starting to regret asking her to be MOH, which makes me feel terrible.
So what should I do? Should I have a stern talk with her and tell her she needs to just take a chill pill, because it's my day and she can't be acting like this? Do I just let it continue and if it gets too out of control I'll ask someone to be 'co-MOH'? I can't just take the job away from her, since I already gave it to her, no matter how crazy she's making me. But I don't want her ruining our big day...