We purchased my wedding ring first. I did not choose any engravings on my ring on purpose. He is still deciding on his ring, and will place his order tomorrow. He wanted a specific phrase engraved on his ring. We got a call from the jeweler saying that they engraved my ring with his phrase. The jeweler said it was traditional for the groom to say what to engrave on the bride's ring and for the bride to say what to engrave on the groom's ring. I have never heard of this before. I feel like if this was the case, that they should have told me that when I ordered my ring. Should I be surprised? Am I wrong in thinking they should have warned me?