I have a MOH and a BM.
Both have several tattoos, but none in visible areas. My MOH mentioned one day she was planning on getting a tattoo in a visible area, but will wait until after my wedding.
My wedding is in a month and a half. Two weeks ago, I was pretty floored when my BM proudly posted pictures of her new tattoo.... on her wrist. That, of course, was the first I heard about it.
I'm fairly upset that she didn't even mention it to me beforehand. She's very upset because my fiance called her out on it on Facebook. I've tried to tell her IDGAF about the tattoo itself (which is only a teeny tiny lie), that I'm only upset that she did something that drastic that close to my wedding without saying a word to me about it. It also didn't help that since the first thing I heard about it was on Facebook with a highly scaled picture that made it look MUCH larger than it is.
So, honest opinions here, am I fixating on something not important or should she have let me know about it first?