My fiance has two sisters: both older than me. The eldest I don't know very well - we've just seen each other at holidays over the years but its been a couple years. I have a closer relationship with his second oldest sister. We're close enough that I would consider asking her - though she is VERY busy. Do I need to ask either? I would like them to be a part of it, and I think family is important, but I also would like to have bridesmaids that I feel close to.
Also, can I just ask one sister and not the other? That seems awkward because both sisters are close.
I am considering asking neither but asking them to both do a reading, or asking one and asking the other to do a reading or something.
Thanks for your input!