My fiancé and I wish to have a small intimate ceremony with only immediate family and our wedding party, but we would like to invite additional family and friends to the reception afterwards? We are having our wedding in an atypical location without a seated dinner and multiple floors. Only about 40 people of our 100 guests would fit on the floor which the ceremony is being held. Please don't recommend that I choose a different location or make the guest list smaller. It's too late for that, and I'm trying to find solutions. Is it acceptable or considered rude to invite the majority of guests to only our wedding reception?