My wedding date is 9/27/2014. I know that typically you have the bridal shower 4-6 weeks away from the wedding day, but no one has offered to plan this for me so far and we're only about 10 weeks out from the big day. Over half of my BMs are pregnant or have babies, so I just have the feeling they're all too busy to plan it. Also, isn't it typically bad etiquette to host the shower myself (as the bride) or even a relative? I'm honestly close to accepting that I just won't have a shower altogether...depressing, I know, but I don't have the heart to put the pressure on my BMs to host this for me