I previously asked for advice on whether not to ask my fiance's sisters to be bridesmaids. Apparently they were very upset that I didn't ask them. I went back and forth about it and decided that since I already have 8 bridesmaids, I simply could not afford or handle the stress of having 10.
Fast forward a few weeks, fiance's mom comes over again to tell him that "this is tearing the family apart". Seriously? I am not that close with his sisters. It started a huge fight between fiance and me and I eventually said they could be in the wedding. He told his mom and reported back that "my mom is so happy". So who wanted the girls to be in the wedding?? His mom or his sisters?
I still haven't asked them and it's been well over a month since I said they could be in it. I just can't genuinely ask them and act like I mean it. I am so stressed out looking at prices of bouquets, bridesmaid gifts (i LOVE giving personalized gifts and I know I'll spend more than I intend to) and hair styles for the day. I also can't help thinking my other bridesmaids may feel like they aren't special anymore. Like anyone that complains can join the wedding party. How can I get over this feeling? I know in the end it doesn't really matter, I'm marrying the love of my life and thats the most important part, but I still have a pit in my stomach
**UPDATE**
I finally asked FI's sisters to be in the wedding and I am super glad I did. His one sister cried because she was so touched and his other sister was pretty darn excited as well. I know I was concerned about cost and all that but honestly, it is going to be one hell of a day and why not have my family, old and new, up on the altar with us. Thanks for all of the feedback! You are all right, what's done is done and I'm happy it is!!