I am a bridesmaid in my cousin's upcoming wedding. The other maids are my sister, three other cousins (two are each others' sisters), and the bride's college friend. With 5 bridesmaids being the bride's cousins (and two sets of sisters among the five) I get how the college friend could feel left out, but I really feel like we have made an effort with her. She is still so rude and standoffish in all her interactions with us. She acts like it is unbearable to be around us and makes tons of snippy comments. How can we make her see that we are ok people who really do want to include her? Should we address it directly and clear the air, or just continue to be nice and see what happens?