My aunt is a very abrasive person who thinks everyone needs to
know her opinion. I have lived very far away from her since I was a little
girl, and we don’t ever talk. She’ll answer my Mom’s phone call once in a blue
moon. I see her once every 4-5 years. She sent me a letter a few days ago
expressing her “concern” about how I’m not making the “right” decision by
choosing not to get married in the church under the religion of her choice, but
opting instead to have a non-denominational ceremony. I found this extremely
insulting, as she said she was worried for my “spiritual wellbeing”. How the do
I respond to this? I am so angry!